Wife is on her way out and not looking back, she is difficult to impossible to deal with, a liar (she can say anything, and then twist my response to something that fits her agenda).
I would not believe this story if someone told it to me, you can read it, but until you live it....
So I have been working on myself more and more, taking it one step at a time, and figuring out where my journey is going to take me.
I made one last shot at opening the lines of communication, only to have her be hurtful, lie and twist everything. I had to for myself, to at least know I tried everything.
Lost, I know what you are saying. I'm sorry.
However, there is one thing you HAVE NOT done yet. Can you handle it? I don't know, but I will tell you anyway.
SET HER FREE. Detach from the drama. Look in the mirror and ask yourself did you give it YOUR best?
Seriously, it works. Two points why it works....1) YOU, finally realize you are on your own and you can be happy on your own(I hope)...2) You validate what she's been asking all along. Give her her freedom from you, when she really feels you let go, maybe she will come back.
I can personally attest to #2. IT WORKS. As long as you get to the place where you look in the mirror and KNOW you tried everything and can really have PEACE with yourself. Let go. Set her free. MAYBE she will come back. Not words of wisdom, but you are not done yet friend.
