Had a great day! A fun playdate this morning with the School Psych and her son, and she revealed her "story of betrayal" to me. She is having the hardest time (understandably) accepting that OW has been holding her son and playing with her son. She can't believe I am accepting of it. WHen pressed as to why I am not more outraged, I found myself saying "because I trust exH is being a very good dad to S when he is with him." Well, her H was not very hands on with S when he was born and she still is a more responsible/skilled parent than he is.
We will be getting together with the toddlers in a week for dinner at her place!
Then I saw exSIL and bought an apron and mitt, 2 purses, and 2 pencil pouches. She refused to let me pay her asking price, but I insisted--told her she needs to be paid what she is worth! Family or not! I wouldn't feel right paying her less! (it's a small business with one employee!)
I think that's it-- S was adorable petting/playing with her cats. He was trying to play peekaboo with them and we kept reminding him also how to pet "gentle!"
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004