Oh and Lost, if you told someone that H was having an A, wouldn't he just get transferred rather than fired? What is your district's policy on dating co-workers? IS there anything on having an affair?

He is scared about his REPUTATION, not his job! But I know you know that.

Psst...if he does get transferred, that would be super ideal for complicating things for him and OW don't you think? And there is no one like a PTA mom who will spread the gossip if somehow a parent found out!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004