I orginaly posted in Newcomers - but my H is a WAH. We have been married 6 years together 8 - have 2 little ones 3 and under.... one day he said he felt trapped and he isnt the marrying guy. He showed up tonight at 6 and said he thought tonight was the night I had a party to goto and he had to watch the babies. I said no but come in and offered him a glass of wine. We had a great time playing with the babies. My 3 year old stroked his face and said Daddy you are back! You are back! My H did nothing. I had my sister drive him home. Is this a positive sign? He also wants to spend Christmas with my family...should I let him or am I making it to easy for him - he says all he wants is to be my friend...