BTW, no worries. I don't bring this subject up with H. Just want to be prepared for the future. The approach I had used (two times) left me with a 'not yet'. Need to stop doing what isn't working right??

All I want is a chance at R, does R mean happily married forever? I no longer equate the two. Admittedly, the desire for a chance at R is dwindling with time.

(Formerly blgp)
Me-35
H-33
Married 4 yrs
Together 9 yrs
"Bomb" 8/1/10
Separated 8/6/10
D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11

"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."