dbmod its fine i cheated on my wife so i am fully prepared for the consequences. Now is he having a ea/pa who knows i confronted her and she wants to know who hates her bad enough to be spreading lies about her. She fully denies there is another man so i take her word for it keeping on at her about it isn't gonna help matters. I simply told her if there was i hope he makes u happy and takes care of you cause u deserve it.