I don't think that "accepting" what is happening with your H right now would be admitting defeat or permanent loss of your H.
What you'd be "accepting" is this...
what is going on with your H right now IS BEYOND YOUR CONTROL. There is nothing you can do FOR him right now...nothing!
But...you are doing something for YOU and YOUR S by going to therapy, practicing your newly learned skills and taking care of you!!! Give yourself some time...like bluestar said, it will take some time to learn the new way of thinking!
Hang in there girl!!!!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
