Alright enough about bounderies. I'm quite happy in my own skin, and I don't need to hear anymore advice that is not solution oriented. I have my self respect and I never made any assurances about exposure.
Fair enough. You do it how YOU want to. You have to look at yourself in the mirror each day and know that YOU tried everything.
As far as the bold comment goes, it's not fair to assume that any advice isn't solution oriented until you try it. How do you know it wouldn't work?
Now if you just don't want to go that route yet, that's understandable. Just try to understand that EVERYONE posting to you is just trying to help. It's your choice to take the advice and apply it, manipulate it, or just throw it out.
I HOPE your Wife doesn't go to see the OM. I really mean this. Whatever solution oriented goals you have, I believe this being stopped is the highest priority. I hope you find the best way. Take care friend.
