Gosh Sue,

I'm having a challenging time totally detaching (due to child involved and I'm only intervening when child requests) so thought I would re-read this thread for your suggestions.

Imagine my surprise when I read that you consider me your mentor and a celebrity (that last one is a tad scary...LOL). I am very honored that you think that highly of me because I DEFINITELY think very highly of you.

You are an amazing woman and your insight into anger has been beneficial for me. It helped me recognize how resentful I was (at myself but blaming H) for a very long time another lifetime ago and how angry my H is (at himself but he hasn't figured it out yet and it sure doesn't help that the OW is encouraging the anger to be directed at me either although I do constantly remind myself that I'm still the closest person to him since he keeps projecting onto me -- the good in the bad *sigh*).