Mila,

Isn't that a biotch? All dressed up and no place to go. I just bought the perfect little black dress. I'm wearing it to the office Christmas party, but then? Wal-Mart? Grand opening of a Car Wash? My hometown ( est. pop. 6000) is not exactly a fount of classiness.

You sound much better in the controlled adult conversation department with your H than I am. WHEN we have contact, he asks a question, and if I began to answer it, he says I DON'T WANT TO FIGHT. He still brings out the worst in me at those moments, so I'm avoiding it entirely. Much better.

Exciting news, though. I found matching 4 inch sling backs for $7.49!! Bargain even if I only wear it once!