I agree with the above. Reading this bunk is only a type of denial and sets you back.
I had SO MANY 'blips' of normalcy along the way. I was constantly told that 'reconciliation is around the corner'. The moderatros here, at one point, put my entire thread in the 'Inspirational' forum which was once here. Saying this tongue in cheek, "bah....humbug."
They don't come back. And if they DO, it's only a small fraction and even THEN, there is still so much work to do and much in the way of mistrust.
CTH, I have continually said here...and I live by this. The advice exists because it IS true. Live life as best you can. Drop the rope and don't turn back. Don't keep looking in the rear view mirror. Someday, if X comes knocking at your door, you'll have plenty of time to figure out what you'd do in that sitch. Ask yourself, "why do I want to stay with someone who is destroying everything we have?". Think.
Supporting you. FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
