Why do I even bother?

[Phenix70]

Jstar,
You really think it's something as simple as he wants to see me hurting?
It's hard for me to see it that way since he's the one who wants to divorce, not me, so to me he's already hurt me, why would he want to see me hurt more?
Maybe I'm just trying to be too logical, LOL.

Any suggestions on how to set boundaries?
I have to admit I'm going a little nuts at the moment, I'm very overwhelmed with these feelings towards him & being stuck in our home with nowhere to go at the present time.
Going stir crazy doesn't even begin to describe my emotions.