In the process

[newmama]

ok...so the next text was to say he is focusing on his kids right now and is happy with that...no dating. (good job,zoobrew!)

I say that he may find a silver lining is being able to not date when work is so demanding.

Well a couple back and forth's later and I said something like
"I like the meetups as long as they don't take pictures"
and, being a man, he said "WHY? Were you doing something naughty?"

(Men why are you THIS EASY to LURE? KEEPING YOU is a different story...)

I said NO and explained one pic but kept mystery going still. The next thing I knew he said he had to go but it was fun texting me and wanted to know if we could grab a brew sometime.

I say "sure, we could grab a brew some month" (because it took him a month to get back to me when I asked him out in June)

So then he says "that would be great ___(calls me by an old nick name from the summer);)"

who knows if we will actually go out or not. But I am not as giddy and head over heels as I was in the summer! The hormones have calmed and I am a MUCH wiser woman...back in total control of herself!