In the process

[newmama]

Well I got a text from zoobrew tonight, celebrating "our Ducks" (his words). I was talking on the phone to a friend at the time but was texting back and forth. All innocent with some clever joking (yeah- we have that)

So then he asks me how I am doing and all so I let him know keeping busy with a full schedule of activities.

Then he asks if my divorce was done yet. I told him yep, moving on. He said I sound positive.

I asked him about his (ex) girlfriend. He said he had some business to work out but in the end, his kids were most important so he ended it.

He said he wasn't into guilt and the games because he wanted to spend quality time with his kids ...

Apparently, she wasn't satisfied because he has week on/week off with the kids and then he has 2 jobs. So even on his week off (and I think she spent time with the kids and him on his week on) she wasn't satisfied with they way he was treating her.

Now, I say this--how is one supposed to have a relationship when they have NO TIME TO INVEST?! Seriously--is his life really open for one right now? I am not looking for a relationship with him- just was catching up. But if he asks my opinion I will tell him straight out.

We are still texting-- am waiting for my sheets to dry so I can go to bed! The mattress cover has so much fabric that it's like a blanket almost so it takes forever to dry.