So, does that mean she is interested in a MC or IC? The 3 options I wrote about before (except Routerville) ain't cheap... but I can for sure tell you it's a lot cheaper than a D! Can't help being a little worried if it is an IC she ends up going to... That feeling for me stems from the introduction in the DB book and reading about others that have been told a separation is a good thing. You know what I mean? It's such an awful feeling thinking that so many outside influences can affect our marriages.
Sorry about the rough day. How are the kids handling all of this? Good job on giving her space and patience. While my H doesn't know it, this is what I am giving him too. Maybe one day this gift will come back to us.
Their is a post from warriorshadow on Zen's thread. WS pointed out that while our situations suck, it's great to be the LBS. I wouldn't want to be the MLCer/WAS for anything...
(Formerly blgp) Me-35 H-33 Married 4 yrs Together 9 yrs "Bomb" 8/1/10 Separated 8/6/10 D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11
"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."
