I guess I'll start posting here since my other post was deleted.

After the blowup in October I told my wife that since she wanted a divorce and to separate that she should move out. I guess standing up to her did help. She agreed that we should both stay in the house but she is not wanting to work on our M.

So now I'm sleeping another bedroom and working on my 180. She has noticed but doesn't care. Yesterday she said she is staying together for the kids but once they are all in High School, 4 or 5 years from now, she is leaving.

So I have some time to work on my 180.


Married 15 years
3 children 13, 12, 10
1st D bomb Jan 09
2nd D bomb Feb 11
I moved out June 11