Piecing IS a state of mind, state of relationship, not a legality.
DBing is not a once and done success story. I've been piecing my relationship for probably 6 years.
We need to learn HOW to define success, so we recognize it early on and build on it.
The prevailing mindset around here for a long time is doom and gloom. Success is when you and your partner are working together, not when you've renewed your vows, or one of you is dead without having jumped to divorce.
sg
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
