btw--this officially makes you a DB success story. Now keep the changes going, build.
Go to piecing if you'd like. If you expound on step 2), others will be able to learn from you. If all you do is say you set a boundary, others will miss the part that attracts someone back.
Dbmod, I don't see how you can claim that this is a success story. Sinclair's WAW has done nothing but say that she wants to come back. Her actions have shown nothing to prove what she's saying. Aren't we supposed to believe nothing of what they say and only 50% of what they do? I've been Piecing for 18+ months and I still don't consider myself a success story. Stating that this is a success story that should move to Piecing is really premature and giving Newcomers false hope.
Just my .02 cents.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
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