Hi SIC, that's a difficult call. In all honesty I think you need to call her on it. If she is seeing OM then she will never connect to you. Say something like, "your work called to ask if you planed on working tonight."
Leave it at that and see what she says. If she already planned on working she will call right away to fix any possible mix-up.
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012