Hope it's not too late

[what next?]

Yeah, I'm not going to try and direct her to here. I realize that that would only backfire. I just wish she could find it on her own lol. I did tell her about WAW when I first heard about it but that was quite a while back now. I tried to get her to read Michele's first chapter but I don't know whether or not she did. Just so frustrating to me that she is putting a ton of effort right now into getting through this (going to recovery classes at church and reading about life after divorce) but if she would put that effort into saving our marriage then we could avoid all of this. What I hope (and believe) will happen is that after all is said and done she will realize that there is more to the loss than a book can teach her to deal with. When she is confronted with that reality I think she will be open to considering putting the effort into reconciliation.