Thought I would post an update today regarding my live-in WAW. have been suspicious of her behavior for the past year and had previously thought she was involved with an OM from out of town. I have been checking her work BB periodically and noticed some very cryptic emails from a mail co-worker.
I checked again today and there was one last week from indicating that he missed her etc. I decided to call her on it this afternoon and asked what was going on with this guy. She confessed to an EA but denied a PA. Personally, I don't believe her. I basically told her in a nice way that either she stays and works on the marriage or she can request a divorce. I said that I don't want a divorce and am prepared to work on the marriage, but if she is not prepared to work on it then she needs to decide. I told her that she can't be half in and half out and that I won't tolerate her EA etc.
Not sure where this is going, but I feel pretty good about myself. I felt that she needed to know that I knew that something was going on and that I felt that it was unacceptable. Better to have your pride than nothing else.
If it ends in divorce, so be it. It can't be any worse than the life I am currently living that is full of deceit and lies and void of any love or caring.
