Doing 180, but Husband still researched D

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Doing okay so far today.
H & I watched a movie last night, it was nice to laugh together like that.
Tonight he has a school/work function & will be gone all night.
I offered to drop him off & he was happy to take me up on my offer.
He did ask what I wanted for Christmas, I told him I would think about it & get back to him.
Asked about getting a Christmas tree & he doesn't seem into it at all.

Still no affection of any kind, not even so much as a pat on the arm.
I won't initiate contact, it's very difficult since we were very affectionate with one another when things were good between us.

No news on the job front.
My work outs are going very well, I'm happy to say that I've been sleeping better than I have in a long time.
Funny how that works, even my dog is sleeping better.

All in all, with the exception of my work outs, I feel stuck in limbo, not going forward, not going backward.
I'm sticking to my goals & that helps immensely, though I will admit, I honestly do not see there being a R in our future.
My H appears to have made up his mind & if there's one thing I've learned about him, once his mind is made up, nothing can change it, he's as stubborn as they come, believe that.
My GALing was & is 100% for me, if I got my H's attention as a by product, great, if not, then oh well.