Well, things are moving on here. We booked a cruise with some friends in april and are making plans for future. we see the Co next Thurs to work on not letting this happen again. 1st Co session together as we had seen him seperatly. I'm not sure if I should bring up her infidelity at this point but I am still hurt about it. I just don't get it?
Morning AT, because my sitch is different (no A) I can't say whether or not you should bring it up in a joint counselling session. However, I have to encourage you that if you're hurting, you really need to talk about it. Don't judge yourself for hurting or try to sweep it under the rug.
Please do book yourself an individual session with your IC so that you can feel free to say and express your true feelings without worrying about what your W will say or how she'll take it.
I've learned through my own experiences that not talking about the things that hurt us can create such damaging longterm effects in our lives... Your IC can help you feel what you need to and learn how to deal with those negative emotions in a productive and healthy way.
I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.
