As for me I am doing well. I've been busy with the holidays, but have been going out and having fun. It's hard to say how I am because right now my sister is always around, so without her i'm sure I'd be feeling in the dumps again. But so far so good.
I dont think about W much normally. I am still extremely angry when I see her, but seldom show it now. We really dont talk much... passing without words. I do get the feeling she is angry at times that I am doing out having fun, but other times she seems happy about it. As I've said... Her anger is about LACK OF CASH... not me or the loss of US. I could drop off the face of the Earth and I truly doubt she'd care right now. I am still irritated at how she treats me, considering she wronged me, but I continue to make progress every day.
I am actually quite anxious now to get the divorce final... mainly because I will have a better idea of my financial situation. Its hard to plan things and I'm afraid to purchase anything until I know how much I'll need to pay her and what I have to work with. She on the other hand is spending as usual... certainly in for a rude awakening. I spoke to my attorney yesterday, i was again advised not to pay her anything and I would be notified when and what to pay. I was also told W WILL NOT get maintenance. She has a hearing set for Jan, which I found out from her family.
Kids are great! I just finished my vacation and it was very relaxing. I do feel rested and revived. Today I return to work and start getting back into the daily grind of work and parenting.
