There's nothing wrong with hanging out with women on a non-romantic level IMO. It's when you start doing it as a ploy to get your W back that it becomes ethically wrong because you're yanking a third person's emotions into it.

"I don't think I want to go, too long, without companionship."
If you really think you can't survive without a woman, then your life will always be out of your control. How long is "too long" for you? A couple of months and you start falling apart already?

If you want to date for the sake of getting a romantic relationship, then file for divorce while you're doing so. Show that you are 'done'.

GAL does not have to include "dating". It's building yourself back up with activities that you want to do. Again, not as a ploy. The dating thing is an individual choice and not a "DB" principle.


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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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