Thank you for your opinion. Currently, I am doing 180's, changing how I behave if I think her complaints are justified for the best interest of myself and the kids. I don't plan on moving out. If she wants to take the kids and move in with the OM that is fine although I will miss the kids (nothing I can do to stop her there). I think she has some valid points about my behavior, but I believe they are minor faults that she is using as excuses to justify her behavior. She has seemed to respond to a friendly but detached approach so i will contue that until I have had a chance to think about more specific goals after researching/getting opinions from you guys.
