First, I gave my final seminar for my program and it was probably the best presentation I have ever given, receiving LOTS of praise and attention from faculty to students.
My favorite part of it all was that my mentor introduced me as 'one of the most productive residents we have ever had' and started listing several accomplishments here and nationally... and did I mention OW was there Well suspected OW1 anyway, really suspect there is someone else but don't know who...
I don't think H was there... didn't see him but didn't look around because I didn't want to get nervous during the presentation. A lot of people there so I focused on the other side of the room.
Then, later in the day SIL found me (she is also a resident but in H's area). To this point I have seen her as a snake since OW1 and her are friends and I suspected she may be encouraging this. Today though, women's intuition told me otherwise. She needed to talk about changing her seminar date, I am in charge of this for all residents. She then used the time to talk a while telling me how good I look (this is the 2nd time hearing this from her during this whole DB experience) how good my presentation was and how she kept staring at me during the talk remarking to herself about my appearance/confidence.
We chatted a little while. Told her it is from running and getting in the best shape I have ever been in, considering running in a half marathon, learning to swim, focusing on the positive things that have come from this situation etc. Told her I think going through a situation like this changes you forever.
She told me that she wanted me to know she isn't taking sides, she likes us both, very heartfelt about it... gave her a big hug and she teared up. Told me she won't tell H anything we talked about (haha, yeah right! If she doesn't BIL prob will... not falling for that) and that her and H recently got into a fight. I told her I was sorry to hear that and refrained from asking why... women's intuition told me it may have something to do with her finally seeing through what is going on (maybe she didn't really see what H was up to...) and a culmination of work related frustrations.
Either way, I can see the DBing working on her...
(Formerly blgp) Me-35 H-33 Married 4 yrs Together 9 yrs "Bomb" 8/1/10 Separated 8/6/10 D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11
"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."
Well suspected OW1 anyway, really suspect there is someone else but don't know who...
