I think its over help pls

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If she says I found a place I will express ok that's what u need and u know we all would like u here to that effect but giving her full freedom to go.

She always has had the freedom to go. Slavery is illegal.

As for the red part... will you really be telling her what you want as she walks out the door if it comes to that?

She knows what you want, I bet. I'm not as sure she knows you understand what she is saying she wants.