Here we go again!

[bethann]

So, I guess this is more of a journal for me. H called yesterday, asked the kids if he could talk to me. Wants me to meet with a mediator to get this separation legal. He said repeatedly, "We need to get this moving along, first the separation and then the divorce." I just kept validating his feelings and agreed to meet with the mediator, told him to let me know when he set it up. I was pretty upset after I got off the phone. I guess it's really going to be over. I just kept thinking that he'd come to his senses eventually - I mean, he did the last time.
Also, struggling a little bit with the 180. Trying to stay positive and not argue with him, but every little thing is driving me crazy. This last week, I received 3 different bills in the mail. He had changed the accound names from his to mine and simply by doing that I got an activation charge. No services were activated, only a name change. When I asked him why it mattered he kept saying "I don't live there anymore and I'm not coming back, so I don't want my name on anything."
Can someone out there tell me there's some hope left. I really feel like he is cutting all ties here and the chances of his changing gears and coming back is pretty much nil. Anybody had success after a long period of time separated. Over a year??