New Mama-
I think I picked up earlier in your posts that you are a teacher. How did you share or not share your divorce with people at school? I am a teacher also, my husband had an affair at the end of last year. He has since moved out 3 weeks ago. I carry a lot of shame over the idea of being divorced. I know we are headed that direction, but I am so worried about people at school, other than my closest friends, finding out. Did anyone at your school treat you differently? I hope you don't mind me asking. I have read much of your thread and am so inspired by you. At the moment I am really struggling with the separation. My stbx is also still with ow. At the moment it is hard to imagine the pain ever dimishing.