When you fall, you get back up again. Right now your W is confused and she needs an anchor to reach out for. Be that anchor.
"I told her that was fine; that she should take her time and be more comfortable with her decision; that as long as she wasn't dating other men, I'd be there for her."
Wrong thing to say. Let's face it, you aren't going to be there for her. It's unrealistic. It makes it sound like you're waiting around for her which negates your GAL and showing her that you can live without her.
"I said that we could maintain our friendship, no matter what choice she made."
Another wrong thing to say. Let's face it, your new GF or W isn't going to want you to be friends with her. It's the way it is. Stop mentioning that you're going to be there for her. Deep down inside she knows. You don't need to 'prove' anything to her.
Right now your W is confused and she needs an anchor to reach out for. Be that anchor. When she sees her life spiraling out of control, she's going to want to reach out for the one strong thing left standing. Let that be you. But you aren't waiting for her.
How long has she been on meds? That could be contributing to her fuzzy thinking.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
