For the past week I'm observing that H is spending more time with D. She was at his place for supper last week, on the weekend H went shopping with us. D was at his place last night as he was helping her with a school project and today again to continue working on that project and he called me and said the he will make her dinner. That's the most he saw her in one week since the bomb. He also went to visit his dad on Sunday.....wondering if he is reconnecting a bit
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
I don't know what I've hit....probably nothing LOL. Looks like OW is flying over this weekend according to her H. So maybe my H wanted to see D before, so he feels good about himself. OW's H thought that it was strange that she is flying out so soon after my H came back from there, especially since she is apparently coming here for Xmas in 2 weeks. Whatever....
H wanted to talk to me about some changes we wants to make in our telephone/internet/cable package, but I couldn't talk, had to go to an appointment and then run some errands. Told him that I'll call him back when I'm done. When I did, he cut me off and said "It's too late now, I'm busy, I'll call you back". That was yesterday......
Still no word from H about the SA. My lawyer actually emailed me asking what's going on....I don't know, doesn't seem to be a priority at the moment I guess...
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
Friday night, all dressed up and no place to go LOL. Just came back from a meeting downtown and feel like doing something....but nothing planned for tonight . Going our for dinner with a male friend tomorrow, he is nice and I enjoy his company but don't worry, so far we just cry on each other's shoulder...he is on about the same time line as I am...his MLC W did what my H did...
No real interaction with H, accept some cold to the point business emails where he doesn't even bother to say hi or please....just requests or statements....no signature either....I find it rude
He is really cycling....warm, cold, warm, cold.....
Thinking what to do tonight...feeling restless....and ready to have some fun
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
I'm snowed in this evening. I think we've had 3.5 inches so far (light and fluffy) and could get 5-8 inches before the storm is over. There will be perfect cross-country skiing tomorrow! It took 3 times longer to get home from work tonight. Came home, lit a fire in the fireplace, lit half a dozen candles, and I'm curled up in my sunroom catching up on e-mail and reading my book on flirting.
When I read your post about OW, I wondered if she felt insecure about R with H, and maybe that is why she is visiting so soon. I realize that all of this speculation isn't very productive.... just telling you what came to my mind when I read your post.
Aside from looking pretty, dressed to the nines, what are you doing this evening?
Good for you Mila to keep yourself busy. Go out and have some fun this evening. I always loved to be dressed up for shopping, coffee, the movies etc to keep my mind off of h.
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GAG - Sounds cozy at your place...fire, candles and snow outside....so are you skiing tomorrow?
Well since I don't have anybody to go out with tonight....I may go out by myself....we will see
Funny that you mentioned that the OW maybe coming so soon because of insecurity...that was her H's assessment of the situation as well...If my H is sharing with me that he really doesn't know what it feels like to have a nice day anymore...maybe he is sharing that with OW as well...that should make her nervous...but again this is all speculation as you said
Glam - I was dressed up for a business meeting...elegant, but sexy LOL...got compliments from females and looks from guys...so yeah I felt pretty good today.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
. Going our for dinner with a male friend tomorrow, he is nice and I enjoy his company but don't worry, so far we just cry on each other's shoulder...he is on about the same time line as I am...his MLC W did what my H did...
It took 3 times longer to get home from work tonight. Came home, lit a fire in the fireplace, lit half a dozen candles, and I'm curled up in my sunroom catching up on e-mail and reading my book on flirting.