Flowmom has a good point and I also thought he might be busy with work during the day.

I will never forget the first week I was chatting with Josh. He was at work and said "Shhh... I'm at work" - it was kind of cute. however I did notice that he rarely takes time away from his work - that would have worried me.

Like you, Flowmom, I never call Josh at work "just to talk". I do call him in important situations but that amounts to "Ryan is in hospital" or "we have one hour to put in an offer on our house". On the other hand - he calls me occasionally from the office if he's having a bad day or if things are slow. But I'm not working. In the 5 years we were together that I was working he did not ever call me while I was working.

But we all have different types of jobs and different availability while we are working.

Ellie - I'd give him a second chance if YOU are into him. See what happens.

Barb