I think its over help pls

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I understand and I have ended any conversation with a statement not arguing with whag she wants. To do. Rt now I feel like throwing in the towel. If I was a teen I would but I have kids and xmass to consider. Alot of what I say here is what I would like to do but I don't because I know it will make it worse. I would love to have a screaming argument to vent but I haven't.
we are in counseling she hasn't said I don't want to go. She wouldn't answer the mc when asked if she wanted a D. Maybe she really just doesn't know.
If she says I found a place I will express ok that's what u need and u know we all would like u here to that effect but giving her full freedom to go.

Very frustrated ......I don't know what she truly wants or needs and it is going to wear me down.