I think its over help pls

[TimeHeals]

BTW, telling somebody who says they want to move out (that's a seperation) that you want to work on the marriage is arguing with them... just so we're clear.

If she says, "disbelief, I need to move out".

What do you say?

"I get it. You feel like you need to move out.".

You heard her. Don't fight her.