You need to take the focus off of your wife and put it on YOU. You can only control YOUR behavior. Many of your goals are 1) "MY WIFE"...... 2) "MY WIFE"...... 3) "MY WIFE"...... 4) "MY WIFE"......
they should be
I am going to do this... I am going to do that...
You must lower your expectations. If this is a MLC it is going to take time, lots of time. You must learn patience and need to GAL.
