Drew, I know what you're saying but aren't we changing in order to make our W's change? And isn't that change a response?

It appears that we are in deinial of the goal and that goal IS to ultimately get a response. maybe I'm fighting the system here. Not trying to fight but also want to be realistic.

I understand the concept of GAL and 180. That to me prepares you in the event your S leaves or has left. It helps make YOU feel better. But we are all looking for a response. I positive one.

M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012