Antonia is spot on. Unless they seek out the counseling, it probably won't work. Counseling (both IC and MC) is about looking at yourself and working on yourself. Sounds like he's not ready to do that if he still feels he was being attacked by the MC. All you can do is be a role model. Everyone is different but my H flat out told me that it was my visible growth that made him start to question whether the actions he was taking were correct. Time will tell where my sitch ends but I know that the growth he saw was real and continues to be real. Keep focusing on yourself since that's all you can truly change.
"Love me when I least deserve it, for that is when I need it the most"
M18 Me39,H42 D16 Bomb 1/10 Moved out 3/10 OW 6/10 H wants to R,OW gone 11/10 H moves back 5/11 H wants to wear rings again 9/11
