Ronnie,
I saw your threads and I see you are gettin loads of great advice! keep working on you and focus on where you want to go. Dont focus on the mess thats a stumbling block look at how to use the stumbling block as a stepping stone.


sera,
thank you so much that is so kind of you to say.

have you read A womans guide to changing her man by Michele?
its great. you might really like it and get a lot out of it. Its funny too so its pleasant reading.
Pondering was my mentor when I came here and was new. I hoped that one day I would be able to give advice like she does she was just amazing to me I would get so excited when I came upon her posts. and then one day she replied to me and I felt like I just met a celebrity

I will take a look at your thread when I can to see if theres anything I can add but I am sure you have received all the best advice so far. working on you and reading here is great you are really taking control of your situation just by realizing you have things to work on and are figuring out what they are and you are seeking answers! great first big step!

take care!
Sue

I think Zyg is pretty great too! I like the way he gives so many good questions and great perspectives. there are many great people here at this site. I was just writing today how grateful I am for this BB

[This message has been edited by Sue (edited 12-02-1999).]