Lorie,

Welcome to divorcebusting.com!

One question I have is that I asked him what he missed the most about our R & he said 'talking, nothing serious, just talking.' So, I am occasionally initiating conversations about his job and how things are going.

This is good, if you can keep and build your friendship. I am glad you haven't overdone it yet. I know you want to jump in more, but you do have to let him set the pace a bit.

What is really good is that you seem to be sensitive to his pace.

We are here to help you, so hang in there. I know your first few posts take longer to show, and I apologize for that, but it will appear. Eventually it will go more quickly.


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