Hi Antonia - you may be comforted to know that I struggle with the same issues with My H...Sometimes I feel that "I'm done" and I want to move on and start meeting other people and then it goes back to "I'm standing, I can wait this out"...especially after he surfaces from his fox for a moment and trows me a bone (read hope).
Eric has a good point.
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IF your H called you today and told you that he left OW, realized that he made the biggest mistake of his life and wanted to work things out. What would YOU say TODAY?
I have tried to answer that and my answer to myself is "I DON'T KNOW". On my best days it's a maybe.....
So like you I'm not doing anything...well accept going out for dinner with a male friend....(just dinner LOL)
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO