But the being nice part - you can do that without words. If you see her sad, reach out and touch her hair, or her cheek, use your eyes to convey your love. Do not offer verbally, if you want to do something for her, just do it without saying anything. Prepare her coffee and put it where she usually does. You can let her know you did it already. If she gets iritated, do not do it again. remember DB principles: Try, experiment, note hwat works, do not repeat what does not, and do not go down cheeseless tunnels!
I think words are our enemies in this situations.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
