Question for moderator and those of you more experienced in this that myself:
My husband is planning on getting an apt--already buying stuff for it and what not. He's quit wearing his ring. Admits he still cares for OW, though he denies current contact. On the other hand, he is talking to me more when he is at the house to visit the baby. He has called me pet names. He still hugs me when he leaves and even gave me an extra rub/tickle on my back last night before he left. After he left, I noticed he had made up both beds (something he rarely if ever did when he was at home) and also had extra bottles for the baby fixed so I wouldn't have to do that later on. I found them to be very helpful and thoughtful. This is somewhat new behavior for him. I sent him a text and told him how much I appreciated it and how helpful it was. I normally would have thanked him, but he felt unappreciated in the past, so part of my 180 is to be more appreciative. Am I reading into these nice gestures too much? What's the opinion on this?


M-32, WAH 32
D-7 months
Bomb of PA 9/25
WAH left 10/24
D Filed by WAH