I want to feel this because I do not like rejection. I think that has been it all along.
No one likes rejection. Once you accept these feeling though….you should use the time to figure out why you feel this way to better understand yourself.
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I just remind myself of all the OW he was with....then that reminds me that I dont need to be with him or really want to.
OW should not be the reason (FTR, I think I’m talking to myself here as well) that you realize that YOU do not NEED or WANT him. I believe that the reasons you do not need or want him, come when you understand who you really are and what YOU really need in your life. Until you come to grips with YOUR needs and WANTS i.e. acceptance of YOU – you may continue to struggle (and FTR, believe it or not – some of this I still struggle with – so please cut yourself some slack).
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In other words, I know what I should be doing, but my broken heart wont let me......
TIME Kissak….time.
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Still diggin
Okay….here goes……whisssshhhh…..I just passed you my shovel – dig Kissak but not at the expense of driving yourself mad. Oh, the shovel I passed is pink with a purple handle
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
