I don't think anything you did or didn't do changed anything, if that helps at all. I would have been surprised if this had not happened. It's so consistent that you can almost count on it. Hence my reluctance to throw a party yesterday.
It's about her, really. She is unsure of herself. I don't think she really knows what she wants, and that's going to be the case for a while. Yesterday, she thought you were "the answer". Today, she doesn't know.
What you do know is that what you were doing was working. So more of that, consistently, seems to be the answer. You are in for a long haul.
