MrBond Thank you for the advice. You're right she does blame me for everything. And for the most part I've been trying to stay out of her way but it's hard living under the same roof. She does go to school and works at night a few times a week so I don't see her much then. On nights when she doesn't I try to make plans with the kids so I am not around her as much as possible. We still have dinner together every night and do the things we would normally do as a family.
I've been GAL as much as possible and with the help of my therapist am loving the changes I have been making. She does acknowledge the changes in me and loves the father I am becoming for my children. We do have our first MC session tonight so I'm just going to take 1 step at a time.
M36 W39 D6 S4 Married 10 years EA began 7/10 Bomb Dropped 8/6/10 Filed for D 10/6/10 Divorce put on hold 12/10 Currently Piecing