Sue,


I'm new, I do mostly reading. I'm familiar with your story, I run into your advice throughout the board. You and Zyg are my mentors, you both are commited to helping others. Anyways 12 years, you won a war, I really admire you. I never fought for anything, dont like confrontations, arguing, or power struggles, I give it to them let them have it. Now my husband wants out, I want to fight. I love him very much and the pain is more than I can take especially when I feel like I'v been replaced. I tell more like yell: that he's a liar and a cheater. I told him he had to move out and he did. Now he calls more then ever even more affection more respectful and says he is confused. I know my rope has lost alot of yardage, and now more thin. I have to be smarter. Any advice from you will be welcomed. Thanks,


sera,

[This message has been edited by sera (edited 12-02-1999).]

[This message has been edited by sera (edited 12-02-1999).]