Jstar,

Have you given your H the feeling that he is the one losing you?


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some are still living with their spouse, have friendly banter, we have NONE.


I was in the same situation for months. Did not speak to W other than stuff about the kids.
She noticed me pulling away, she felt as if she was losing ME.
The truth is, she was losing me, I decided I deserved better.

That's when my sitch changed.


Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12
Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life!
“Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."