Immediate Help Needed on Confronting Spouce

[gutwrenching]

Listen to Sandi!
I heard the closure line not too long ago, 3 months into a serious/significant effort into piecing our M back together, and I couldn't prevent it...she reached out to OM...and now we seem more likely to separate than to piece because she fed the addiction

Secondly, like sandi says, don't reveal how you know. Everytime I did that, W and OM found a new, harder to detect method to communicate.