How do you share information of new "status" in Christmas cards/newsletters, etc. We always sent one out and we have a lot of people out of town who do not know.
Looking for language:)
Irish,
First I would like to say, your prayer to the OW is what we would ALL say. So I feel your pain. But really she isn't the problem, our husbands are. They are too blame. Don't worry, I do believe in Karma and it comes back, trust me. It happened to me.
Second of all, I sent out my Christmas cards. I signed only my name and my sons. Then for those who didn't know, I just wrote a small note stating that my H and I are separated. He turned out to be a man that would hurt me more than I could ever imagine. He broke up our family and caused me to be on medication. Please understand and keep us in your prayers so we can heal.
I never said he cheated. Let them read between the lines.
You know what, a former co worker of mine sent me a beautiful card about starting my new journey. She wrote me a lovely supportive note BUT sadly, her sister in her 40's is experiencing the same thing. Her sister has 2 little boys, 8 & 10.
So see, she read between the lines.
What I still find so amazing is the amount of people going through this. I am so baffled. Not including this board, I can count on 2 hands how many men and women have acted so foolishly and left their spouse. Most have divorced. A woman I know, her H did the same as mine in many ways, always sweet talking to come back then BAM, he was fooling around AGAIN. She finally met someone by introduction from co workers and has never been happier. Her words, " I thought the love I had with Wade was perfect and wonderful. Well, it is not. The love I have with my current guy is really what love is about. I never knew love could be this wonderful."
I am really starting to believe there is a better life for us out there without all this drama.
As I said before in other threads, when I reflect back, my H wasn't always a nice guy to me. Too many hurts.
Finding him on Plenty of Fish dating site by accident was my wake up call. I swear, it was Divine Intervention. Someone above is watching out for me and said, " wake up cat4554, move on."
I am !!!
Hope you find the peace & love that you deserve. We ALL DESERVE a better life.
